I Need Human Contact and These 3 Tips Help
I can’t take it anymore. I miss hanging out with my colleagues. I miss laughing in the hallways. I miss going for drinks after work. I miss seeing the lower half of everyone’s bodies. Make it stop!
But I don’t see an end in sight. The pandemic has permanently changed how we work. Whatever the “new normal” will be, it’s certainly going to be less in-person contact. I’m a social animal and I don’t know how I will cope. I don’t know how all of us will cope. After all, to be human is to need connection to others.
Here are a few things I’ve tried that work.
- I’ve ramped up my 1:1 conversations. More phone calls or private video sessions and less texting with people I want and need to connect with.
- Safe, socially distanced meetings. I’ve arranged to meet outside with a few teammates, masked up and far apart. Just seeing their faces, eyes actually, gave me a boost.
- Casual, non-work related topics. Those informal chats on the way to the parking lot or the café were usually more personal. Funny toddler stories, movie recommendations, bitch sessions.
If I can’t operate in a social setting anymore, I just need to get creative about how to infuse my life with more human contact. Something tells me that we are already living our future. Shit!
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